I found this lovely quote that fits perfectly to the cactus-creatures. If we have a wound inside of us, then we need time healing. If we keep on touching it, we disturb the process of cure. If we touch a cactus constantly, we get hurt over and over again. If we get in contact with a person regularly that hurts us or doesn´t make us feel good, our heart cannot heal. First of all we need to find our blind spot why we invited this person or situation into our life. After that we´re able to heal.
There is the saying: "Time is a great healer". Through my work as a ConsciousCoach I learned that this saying is only true if we are willing to look at our own part of the situation. When we are clear with this question, the wound has the chance to heal. If not, we attract the situation into our lives over and over again until we learned the lesson.
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